The anticipation of biting into a new year has an electrifying sense of energy. That ‘out with the old and in with the new’ attitude ranks high in popularity, at least in the first months. There have been some years I felt couldn’t end soon enough only to find that in retrospect my perception of what was has shifted with positive acceptance.
Actually, I change my mind occasionally. Ok, frequently. I could blame it on the fact that I’m a woman (which I believe does entitle me to do so without apology, right?). But in theory, age and wisdom allow me to view the world with maturity that only experience provides. My core is intact, ever believing in acceptance, love and humanity. What evolves is the ability to see through the facades of life and separate from what simply doesn’t matter anymore. Life is good.
What hasn’t changed is my love and admiration of men. I have been surrounded by testosterone all of my life…an awesome dad, two brothers (we won’t talk about the time they locked me in my room), a husband who is the love of my life, three incredible sons and a son-in-law, and a grandson who makes me feel alive!
I have worked with men professionally, politically, and on socially conscious efforts. A glance inside the heart of any one of these men reveals the same burning desire to be loved and accepted in the same way women yearn for. It is that which binds us. It is because of these beautiful human beings that Elan Woman dedicates an entire issue to men every year (and that’s another thing that won’t change).
So here we go, onward into 2012 with vigilance. Here’s to living life this year with commitment to change…or just being open to it. You can create a world that sees collaboration and accomplishment of all that is good. We will be right there with you!






